Just wondering!

Imagine a man without a woman to love him. He is in his middle age, educated, well mannered, somewhat handsome, and with a very respectful job. He is feeling lost, powerless and depressed. He can't establish a enduring progressing friendship with a lady, not to mention marriage. Lots of troubles in his life, led him to this condition. Being from the middle class, not having enough money for living alone, not to mention to have a separate flat, he is having a hand-to-mouth life, with very little money left for anything else. The question is: how can this man live happily with a psychological balance?