Friday, February 13, 2009
The sea's magic
Why does the sea represent to us, all this spiritual importance? Is it its vast space which engulfs our sight? Is it changing state? Is the horizon, at which the sky and the sea meet hold a visual effect that tranquilizes us? Is it the different shades of blue mixed with white? Is it the breeze of the sea when we sit beside it? Is it the hissing sound of the sea? Well may be all this. But sure the human being longs subconsciously to the period when he was an embryo, being amphibian, breathing through the water that surrounded it once. It may give the person the same serenity which he or she once had in the womb of their mother, and they may be in dire need for it in the daily life. The sea anywhere in the world, possesses a magic that we can't explain exactly. It has a language of its own, that connects to the subliminal level in us. But sure this is accentuated when we have our blues and get to the sea front, to sit by the sea, befriend it and talk it even without words. I think after a quarter of an hour looking to the sea and contemplating, meditating, will make a positive difference on the person. The sea is unlike the river, it may be an equivalent to the depth of the person psyche. They may both enter into a silent dialogue. But sure the might of the sea is greater. It is a sort of a big emotional charger to the person. Why do lovers always go to a water front, and more to the sea when they are in a city by the sea side? Why the sea has been considered in the Greek mythology as a God, Poseidon? Why the sea is still beholding such glory, dignity and awe? Do the fluids of our bodies reverberate with the saline water of the sea? Do the sun and the wind complement the effect on us?
Sunday, February 08, 2009
The Electronic Shrink!
In this day and age, for sure, electronics has intermingled with every aspect of our civic life. Not only in the cities, the country side but also in the desert as well among nomads. Humans have a very important trait, that characterizes them, it is their passion for talking and conversing with other humans. How often a person who had troubles, has been relieved by founding a compassionate fellow human being to lend him an ear, to feel a big comfort or may be a solution thereafter.
This was traditionally for hundred of years done face to face or through handwritten letters. Then came the telephone to add the dimension of tele-presence, so humanity took one step forward. Wireless communication despite not being used for the common human civilian interaction, meant by their invention and use, a further advance in the communication through human voice real-time.
But as the civilization got more and more materialized, complicated, man has fallen into more and more psychological problems. And as it was (In the beginning, the word was first), and that everything start by speaking and discussing, describing and relating, so came the role of devoted medics for treating troubled souls but through other mechanisms than do religious men.
In the United States of America, they call the psychologist: the shrink. He or she are qualified people well formed medically, and specially trained to hear and analyze people’s psychological troubles. But as not all the population on Earth is able to go to shrinks and also that there is not enough shrinks to do the job. And that even shrinks themselves become preys for psychic upsets, so the matter must be thought about in another context.
To the benefit of mankind, now the electronic revolution as the American futurologist Alvin Toffler, has called it the third wave; provided us with the cellular, the Internet and videoconferencing. So we can talk, write texts or send pictures, videos, or music by the mobile wireless capabilities. Through the Internet, we can email, chat or construct websites, so as to reach other people.
Can these new tools help troubled people? In my opinion, the answer is yes. The tele-presence so as to appease fears of material aggression is very beneficial for shy, fearful people. It can be done 24/7 so as we have no limits of appointments and duration of the session. It is very cheap so as we will not consume a fortune, to get analysis or insights, or new visions for new angles. The anonymity, of users can also be beneficial so as to get inner worries in the most plain language without the usual constraints of social conveniences. The beauty of the matter is that this shrink s a fellow common man or woman, not a specialized one, so as the stigma of being considered a psycho and having a file labeled with a tongue-twisting disease name, is not present. It may not be a disease after all, but only fears, worries which are experienced universally or by other humans who had the experience and found possible ways to get them settled. So people can learn from each other. This doesn’t at all mean to belittle the role of psychologists and psychiatrists but only to put it tin the proper context and use.
This so called electronic shrink can help you even if you are a university professor, residing on a remote spot on Earth or having hundred years of age. The only needed thing is to select the people with optimistic humane logic views. Those you can rely upon their sanity of mind and soul. We have then to be broad-minded, they can be different in many aspects, but sure they are all humans and we need them.